Sometimes when you are in a relationship with a woman you must not allow her to do certain things; not because you have something to fear rather to maintain control of the relationship and keeps her from getting into the habit of doing it. For instance, some women think that looking through your phone at night and reading your emails is a good way to make sure that you aren't up to anything sneaky. Some women take it a step further by demanding your passwords as well. The reason why women get away with this kind of stuff is because if you have nothing to hide, her having the information is irrelevant.
Yet, the reality of the situation is a woman who would do these kinds of things already doesn't trust you and you giving her the information she wants isn't going to change that. Of course, some women do these things not because they don't trust you, rather they are simply testing you or don't know any better. In other words, they are the type of women that you don't want to be with anyways. Also, when you don't allow a woman this kind of free range into your privacy, the women that do stay with you will respect you more as well as know that you are in control; which can only increase their attraction for you. In the end, if you are with a woman who even begins to think about going through your phone or email account, know that now is the time to let her know that type of behavior will not be tolerated. |