Revealing Your Age To A Woman On The Phone

Question From A Reader:

I got a number from a woman who is in her late 30's and I am in my early 20's. The difference in our age might make her not want to meet up with me when I call. Do you have any ideas on what I can tell her on the phone to want to make her come out?

Also she doesn't know how old I am even though she was asking a lot of questions trying to figure out how old I am. I look much older than I really am; any advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated.

Answer:

What she doesn't know won't hurt her especially when it comes to revealing information over the phone.

She has an idea of how old you are and until you create an attraction strong enough where it doesn't even matter anymore let her general idea of how old you are be her answer for now.

When you get her on the phone your only purpose should be to set up a meeting so the whole age thing shouldn't even come up on the phone.

When you met her there was a strong enough connection that she gave you her phone number and if she thinks you are too young their isn't going to be anything you can say on the phone that will change her mind.

Plus getting a woman's phone number doesn't mean much since all that requires is her "not" not liking you.

If her attraction to you is strong all you have to do is come up with the time and place for the two of you to meet and she will find a way to make it happen.

If her attraction for you is weak you can talk to her on the phone until you are blue in the face and she still won't meet you.

In the end, your age will not play a role in the amount of success you have with this older woman unless you reveal it to her in the first place.

Doing that leaves your chances of success up to how she feels about men your age in general and not you.