Sleeping With A Woman to Ease The Pain Of A Painful BreakUp

Question From A Reader:

There is a woman that I just found out has a crush on me and I am getting over a really bad break up, is it wrong to sleep with this woman, to rid the pain of my last relationship?

Answer:

It isn't wrong to sleep with this woman but it might not rid the pain of your last relationship.

At best sleeping with her will help you focus on something else when you are sleeping with her and once you are done doing that perhaps you might choose not to focus on your bad break up any longer.

At worst it will make you think about your bad break up even more.

However, the real question isn't if it is wrong to have sex with her rather is it something that you want to do?

If you want to have sex with this woman then go ahead making sure that you do so in a way that lets her know exactly where you stand.

If you don't want to, there is no need to pursue it any longer in the hopes that having sex with her will make it better.

What you can do right now, is begin realizing what it is that your ex was giving you as well as what it is that you want in a woman.

Once you can hold on to what it is that you want and let go of what you don't have, you will find yourself at a place where sex and women are something that you enjoy again instead of it being a type of therapy to ease the pain of breaking up with your ex-girlfriend.

Right now the only question you need to be asking yourself in regards to sleeping with her, is do you want to do it!