What To Do When She Gives You A List Of Changes To Make In Order To Save The Relationship

When you are in a relationship with a woman and she gives you a laundry list of things that she doesn't like about you and you need to change in order for the relationship to work.

Realize that whether or not you actually change will do very little in regards to her changing her mind about you.

Anyone who writes a list like this doesn't like you and making all the changes that she asked of you at best will result in her coming up with anew list of things she doesn't like about you.

Sooner or later however she is going to end the relationship unless you can get her to stop focusing on the negative.

And, changing based on what is on that list is Not going to do that instead it will keep her focus on continuing to look at the negative.

If you really want to save the relationship the first thing you must do is tell her that you will agree to make he changes she wants as soon ass she writes a list of all the things she appreciates about you, even though the changes you are going to make have little to do with what is on her first list.

Now, no matter what she says or does you are going to learn or begin taking the steps to creating attraction inside of her and being romantic is not on that list.

You are going to create that attraction by being the real man she wants you to be and take control.

Your asking her to write what she appreciates about you is only the first step in getting her to think about you in a positive light.

What you do next will depend on you and you can find out what that is by contacting me or another qualified dating and relationship coach.